What to do if your friend is dating a loser
We fear all sorts of things when we don't understand why our daughters would get a relationship going with a loser. I told her this time that she should go to some kind of counseling to find out WHY she seems to attract this kind of person, and how to change that.
Even the emotional abuse thing has been in my mind as well. She agreed, but then said, 'I won't leave him though...' Well, that kind of defeats the purpose, doesn't it!
She seemed to be getting her life together-had a full time job at a school, bought a vehicle, was going to school to eventually get her teaching degree. All I know is, we really want our adult children to get a good solid future going so we can settle back and relax a bit.
I have a real 'gut' feeling that he is 'abusing' her-maybe not physically, but emotionally. I have a 24 year old daughter who only dates the loser type you describe.
Then to top that off, when our adult children don't seem to care that they are going nowhere we end up lost for words to explain, even to ourselves, how we feel. I told her once, it's like she's 'possessed', and I'm in some kind of science fiction movie. Zachary S In this vlog, I will discuss the ways that you can tell your friends and/or loved ones that the person they are dating is wrong for them. I didn’t think it was possible for America to transfer their sympathy from emasculated Jon to heinous shebeast Kate Gosselin, but it’s happened. Check out this list of telltale signs you’re dating a loser.This guy tells her he used to do all sorts of drugs but he's clean now..huh, ok....I run a background check on him and find out he has a recent drug record! I'd believe he might be off drugs if he wasn't constantly going without sleep and boucing off the walls all the time. I hope both our daughters get their heads straight soon! Can't write a lot now, but are you sure our daughters aren't one in the same?! Becky I just can not get over how alike our daughters are. Yes, my daughter lies over and over about 'them' to make me think they are actually decent people until I find out otherwise. I'm not talking about a little wrinkle here and there or like from wearing the clothes and they just get a wrinkle or two.Just 2 misdemeanors for Pot and paraphenalia, but I showed it to daughter. She says if he was still doing any he's tell her because they have an honest relationship! This guy carries a huge fish gutting knife on his belt that has this keen thing where the sheath turns it into a switchblade function. I don't know if your daughter does this or not, but mine tells boyfriend everything I say about their relationship. It's incredible to read-I honestly had no idea there were 2 of these girls running around ruining their lives. I didn't trust what she was telling me about this one from day 1, then I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt until I realized none of this makes any sense, and asked her too many questions, I guess. I don't think she's ever gone out with a 'decent' one-she has no idea what it would be like, how it could change her life-for the GOOD for a change. I know, just from my grandson, that things are not 'good' there. It is so Jekyll and Hyde with her-and I don't like who she is now at all. I go from 'ripping' her because I am SO mad, to apologizing for whatever I can think of that I did, to begging, to you name it. I'm at the end of my rope not knowing where to go or what to do any more. They looked like you balled them up and twisted them real tight while they were wet and let them dry that way. His shoes were ratty and he had this deep bottle opener on the sole! And once he used the shoe opener he had to drag the mouth of the bottle out of that hole! By contrast..daughter will not walk out of the house unless her makeup and hair are perfect and her clothes and shoes are stylin'! She has called me every day this time, I don't know why it's different this time, but she has not called today even though she voluntarily told me yesterday she was going to call me again today, and it's PM right now so I figure she's avoiding it because she's not coming home tomorrow like she said and she's not 'ready' to inform me.
After I did my last vlog on Youtube about being stuck in The Friend Zone, I got a message on Facebook that inspired my newest blog topic: Hi Nikki: I would like a woman's opinion on this. For the record, the views and opinions expressed by Nikki Lynette are meant for entertainment purposes only, so if you use this advice and it doesn't go well for you, don't blame me.