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Their lives are not balanced: they are inward and isolated, and emotionally removed from themselves and others.They desire a high level of independence, which often appears as an attempt to avoid attachment altogether. Adult: Dismissive Attachment As infants and young children, they usually grew up in environments where their parents were not able to provide them with consistent and reliable emotional support, although their functional needs were met (ex. sports, school, music, working...) because it was too distressing to keep reaching out and not receive the love and support they needed. As adults they cope with distress by fending for themselves, focusing on achievement, shutting off dependency needs and just carrying on. They learned how to shut down thier needs for care and comfort by focusing on play and exploration (ex.We're still filling out a daily questionnaire, and one of the questions is, "How close to Bear did you feel today?" Every single day it feels wrong to answer, "Not at all" so sometimes I answer "Slightly" even though it's rarely true.I believe this diagnosis probably describes my father, and while my mom is an amazing woman, her bipolar disorder was not diagnosed and treated until I was in high school. When we were dating, Hubby put up with a lot, and just wouldn't go away no matter how hard I tried to push him away.Turns out he has a combination of Dismissive and Secure Attachment. It is NOT helping me deal with Bear's attachment issues though.
Sometimes, a man could be in a happy marriage for several years and enjoy a great sex life before he realizes that he’s gay and likes men.
They have a difficult time with letting people in; they do not trust that others will really be there for them when they need them.
It is comforting/ soothing for them to be by themselves.
Really, if a man knows he’s gay, wouldn’t it be better for him to just accept it and avoid dating women in the first place?
But instead of just blaming the guy you’re dating, you can put society to blame too.
I can't wait until we're done with this assessment.