Dating a romanian guy
So, I have a choice between being an asexual woman who only cares about guy’s personality or a crazed fan that doesn’t care about guy’s personality at all, as long as he is Korean?
I would like to put those two groups of people in the same room so they can have a talk.
I live in an almost exclusively white European country where other races are a rare treat. No one heard the “Asians are bad drivers” stereotype (and I intend to keep it that way as long as my father is letting Kimchi Man drive his new car ^^).
Not that I think Europe is less racist than America, it’s probably just more covert when races are not living side by side. Only thing I knew about Korea when we met is that they have efficient car factories, because my geography teacher had mentioned that incessantly. w=100" class="aligncenter wp-image-833" title="What does oppa mean? w=100" class="aligncenter wp-image-873" title="Korean men are men before they are Korean" alt="Prejudices about Korean men" src="https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/korean-men-are-men-before-they-are-korean-thumbnail.gif?
On one hand, there is the stereotype of Asian man as a little emasculated guy that no woman in her right mind could find attractive.
On the other hand, droves of screaming Hallyu fans bring about the prejudice that if you are dating a Korean guy it must be because of the twisted perception of a perfect Korean guy painted in dramas.
w=266&h=300" width="266" height="300" srcset="https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/innocent-man-korean-drama-vs-chang.jpg? w=266&h=300 266w, https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/innocent-man-korean-drama-vs-chang.jpg? w=532&h=600 532w, https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/innocent-man-korean-drama-vs-chang.jpg? w=133&h=150 133w" sizes="(max-width: 266px) 100vw, 266px" /Dating outside your race unavoidably brings about stereotypes and prejudices.
In the West, I have personal friends that are females that say they would not marry any man less than a VP status in a company. My advice is jettison the pop psychology of the Huffington post truism on relationships, and marry a Christian girl from humble origins and make her your Eastern European Cinderella. Mawr, and be able to speak a few love phrases in Romanian.
I do not mean going to church on holidays, I mean someone that is walking the walk.
If not your princess will lack humility and start to be tempted by the jingle in your pocket or worse someone else’s jingle.
Who knows, maybe that’s why I was attracted to a Korean man? w=100" data-large-file="https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/anonymous-oppa-thumbnail.jpg? " alt="Dating Korean guy" src="https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/anonymous-oppa-thumbnail.jpg? w=100&h=100" width="100" height="100" /Korean men are men before they are Korean " data-medium-file="https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/korean-men-are-men-before-they-are-korean-thumbnail.gif? w=100" data-large-file="https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/korean-men-are-men-before-they-are-korean-thumbnail.gif?
;) All I know is that it doesn’t matter why you are initially attracted to someone, what matters is the relationship it blossoms into. " data-medium-file="https://lovingkorean.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/anonymous-oppa-thumbnail.jpg?
Try to understand how girl thinks and her world view.