21 year old dating 14 year old
If you are needing more than that I'd find someone past their mid 20's and up. I don't feel the weight of "depriving" him of having his own kids because he has one.Huh Humm...(clearing throat) I posted back in the fall on this.. BUT, there is also the fact that I guess if it came down to it and things were swimming along the way I expect them too, I wouldn't have a problem having another child in the next couple years. He doesn't buy into my crap when I'm trying to throw a fit over something and I open him up, so we're good for each other.
He is young and may be the best guy, but let him be young and have a chance at having his own kids. BTW - None of those relationships lasted more than 1 1/2 years I don't have a problem with it in theory but I did have a problem with it in my personal life.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...They are still really small, so again, thats another worry I didn't have going in because they are really too young to pine for someone too long if it didn't work out. I know plenty of twentysomethings that got married young and have stayed that way.It doesn't even occur to me most days to think of the age difference. If anything, he might be a bit more mature than I am! So ya, when I'm 60 he'll be 49..spring chicken at any rate. At 25 and 36 the gap is only gonna get smaller as we get older, not wider. Not every 20 yr old wants to party and be irresponsible.
Sure, if thats your thing, your twenties is the time to do it. My parents were 10 yrs apart, it just so happened that it was my father who was older.